Ask The Guides: I'm 34 And Single, Will I Ever Meet The One?

Our Ask The Guides series is a weekly dose of support. We put your questions to them, whereby they can offer up their own insights to help you with whatever challenges you are facing.

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Our Ask The Guides series is a weekly dose of support. We put your questions to them, whereby they can offer up their own insights to help you with whatever challenges you are facing.

Here, Marilyn Fontaine, creative life coach  and Lucy Porter, Priestess of Magdalene and astrologer, give use their thoughts.

I'm 34 and single, Will I Ever Meet The One?

Marilyn Fontaine

The answer to I am single and will I ever meet the one is a pretty broad question.

However I will go by the guidance my ancestors have told me when I asked that same question.

Timing.

First of all, it may not be the right time for you, maybe this time is for personal projects or even spiritual growth, so you may not be ready to be in a partnership yet.

We become frustrated, especially when we have waited a while and in the process we may have experienced rejection,  however most of the time rejection is your protection and you may have entered into something that would impact your growth.

Secondly, what does the one look like to you? List all the positive attributes about the person who you would like to attract into your life and then check to see if you embody these characteristics yourself. 

Your list will give you a good indicator of the person you want vs. the person you are attracting.

Lucy Porter

​​Babe! Of bloody course you will. You’re 34 not 104! Let’s start off with a deep exhale. 

There’s nothing to gain by putting pressure on your divine self. Love is a mutable essence, it flourishes and thrives when we just surrender. The divine feminine in you radiates magnetism, she’s piping hot and knows her worth. Feel into the places in your life that you feel this way; when and where do you feel just, SO good? 

The recipe for manifesting more pleasure, is pleasure itself! When we place heavy pressure on any area of our life, we can actually prevent receptivity there. It’s like the cliche Abundance/Scarcity teaching; we will cultivate more of what we have. 

I say, commit to the next 6 months as a delicious treasure hunt through the dating scene.

Go to places that you LOVE, places that excite you or even turn you on. Get to know potential lovers for no other reason than sensuality, humor and play. It’s from this place you are a match to all of your desires; including the ‘one.’  

To help you on this quest, I recommend that you find a divine feminine coach or sensuality Doula on the Otherness Directory!

Do you have something you would like to ask? Please send it to contact@otherness.co - all are completely anonymous.

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